I hope they are paying for the damage!
If you don't care about your paint, then take it to the handwash. They use harsh aggresive products that can stain trim, wheels etc and also strip any wax or protection on your paint. Then they use the same cloth they have been using all day and to dry it off the same chammy (or worse still a blade).
Honda paint is notoriusly butter soft and easy to mark. Things can really anal when you really get into detailing, and expensive, but the rewards speak for themselves.
And on the ATR...
When you get it looking like that, you want to keep it like that.