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mercutio · Post by **mercutio** » Thu Oct 15, 2015 10:20 pm

Really Sad news Paul me and Helen are both animal lovers i could fill pages with stories of the cats we have lost over the last 10 years but there are always cats in rescue centres that need love apparently black cats never get adopted.

Oh and always remember your cat had a jobby life until it met you then its last years were spent being loved and cared for and loved you in return.
She would not want you to stop giving the love you both have to another cat who deserves as much as she did.

MaccaIRL · Post by **MaccaIRL** » Sat Oct 17, 2015 6:56 pm

That actually hurt me to read tbh
Sorry to hear you loss buddy, losing a family pet can be as a person

Prelude danny · Post by **Prelude danny** » Sun Oct 18, 2015 8:10 pm

Sorry to hear that, I'm scared when both my 2 dogs and 2 cats pass away, I I know it's gonna hurt so much,

My thoughts are with you

Post by **paul bristol uk** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 12:02 am

Thank you all for your kind comments and honesty about your own experiences. 1 week on my wife and I are still raw and only slightly better,but pain and grief hit us out of the blue and we end up in tears. I know this will pass and the happy times we had with Becky will return and the feeling of loss will recede(when I don't know)

As for another cat the answer is no. We cannot go through this again the pain is to deep and we are to old. If a stray turned up I would pay its medical bills and find it a loving home but that is it now.

Thanks again for your replies it shows among other things that this world still has kindness in it!

Jenny and Paul

mercutio · Post by **mercutio** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 5:50 pm

about another pet paul i had the same feeling i told Helen there was no way i was going to go through that again after Taz went but the house felt empty and i lasted about 6 months before she dragged me to a shelter under the pretence of just looking
sometimes you dont choose them they choose you

Post by **paul bristol uk** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:41 pm

Yes mate the house is empty it is a house not a home. She ran it. We will see what the future brings ask me again in six months. My plan is to donate £100,000 in my will to animal charities which I would feel would help more than one cat.
This is not a knee jerk action but something Jenny and I made up our minds about a long time ago.
Not that I have that money kicking about but I do have substantial equity in our house.

mercutio · Post by **mercutio** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:44 pm

good for you paul just make sure it goes to the right place

Post by **4thgenphil** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:52 pm

Anf make sure your sourer is left to me as we agreed

mercutio · Post by **mercutio** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:54 pm

Post by **paul bristol uk** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:57 pm

Spell it right and if I don't crash it its a done deal

Lude Generation

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