I'm here guys!
I can only be brief as I’ve been out of the office this morning and have to go into a meeting shortly.
Unfortunately I can’t see your pics in work, but you can email them to me:
rob.wyatt@gleeds.co.uk
Mostly agree with Nathan so far, use Spoon JDM P13, UKDM no good & I can’t vouch for the P28 you have sorry.
The problem could be:
1) Bad soldering has broken contacts
2) Incorrect fitting (again can’t see pic and it’s not rocket science)
3) Could be a bad chip??? I’ve had two to date in the stacks I’ve sold now. I get batches of used blanked out chips from Hong Kong – I assume I’ve just had a couple of ‘bad eggs’. Not a big deal, probably about 1-2% of the ones I’ve burned and I’ve quickly replaced them for good ones and all sorted.
And yes NS = NucleuStylz.

Notch on ECU / Socket / Chip is very obvious and as you say it’s noted on the instructions quite clearly.
Right, try and email me some pics if you can, otherwise I can’t be much help till later.
I can stick another in the post tomorrow to try, to rule out a bad chip.
Cheers,
Rob